“Create your Stage”

Do you ever feel like there is more? There should be more in life for you, this just cannot be it?

You are trying your best, really, to keep everybody happy.

You do what must be done.

That just gets a bit draining at times, trying to be what you feel you should.

And really, you are done with not feeling good enough; in the mirror, for others and for following your dreams.

You are done with measuring who you are and what you want with what others feel is possible or normal.

Frankly, you want something else.

Welcome to “Create your stage” where you can start building that life you love to wake up too!

The transformational program “Create your stage” (well, and me*) can help you to become who you really are.

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* this is me, nice to meet ya!

You have an unapologetic version in yourself, a unique individual to whom people love to connect. A true authentic Icon.

You can be that person that makes peoples heads turn, when they walk into a room.

To leave an impression that people do not forget.

Did you know that that isn’t about being beautiful or intelligent? Nor is it about who you are with, your heritage or who your partner might be?

That is not why people connect to you.

People love to connect to you because of how easy it is for you to BE YOURSELF.

To be unapologetic about what you do, how you do it and what you look like.

To know what you want to spend your time on, your energy.

To put up healthy boundaries so others can’t decide who you are anymore.

They SEE YOU the minute you walk into the room, because you have that unique vibe and you dare to share how you feel about life & what you bring to the world.

So how do we (well, you…) do that?

If you want to create a life you love to wake up to, you are going to have to change a few things.

The most important one is admitting to yourself what your actual dreams are…

You done that already?

Are you working on it already?


Oh, it’s not enough?

Great! Read on!!

Are you doing what you love to do?

There is no point in trying to be something you are not.

That isn’t going to bring you that life you love.

That is just going to drain you.
Give you a burn-out.
Hate you life.

There is a point in trying to uncover who you really are.

And bring that out so others can see you.

That gives you that vibe.
That honest, true and authentic vibe.
That thing that will make others connect to you because they see you are for real.

It will also give anything you create a unique look & feel.

It will make it easy for you to create things.

Very basic things, like the look and feel of your website or logo.
Those come easy because you know yourself and what you want.

But also new things.

You will have a unique way in doing things and that will automatically draw people’s attention.

See, that got your attention!

How to bring out the authentic Icon?

How to be that person that leaves an impression that nobody wants to shake?

So you can grow a fan-base that connects with you in an honest way?

I just promised you that is wasn’t about being beautiful or who you know.

So I am not going to spam you with marketing techniques that take you further away from who you really are.

I am not going to make you do things that you do not really want to do.

“Create your stage” isn’t filled with techniques that teach you tricks about how people will connect to you.

“Create your stage” is doing something way more difficult and daring.

It invites you to come to terms with who you really are, and take action accordingly.

How to be grounded…

When I first started my business nobody understood me.

Nobody, not my family, not my friends, really understood what I was trying to do.

You see, I came from a place where I tried to keep everybody happy.

That is what I was taught to do when I was raised, that is what I kept doing though school and when I graduated from a MA in fashion it was only because I was so good in understanding what others wanted that I was able to graduate.

Designing fashion the way I really wanted to design was out of the question.

Off course I can continue to point fingers but the core of the problem was me.

I wasn’t grounded and happy with myself.

I didn’t care about my own feelings and I didn’t have any self-respect.

Fast forward a few years meant that building my business was my way of making sure that I could start living life MY WAY.

It is why I believe that if you truly want to live a live you love to wake up to, it always involves a business or at least a hobby that you use to grow with.

But not one of my friends understood me.

And when it turned out that it wasn’t just a business that I needed to create a life I loved to wake up to, but it also involved a divorce, it meant losing more understanding from others.

I had never done that before.

All my life I was working to fulfill the wishes of others.

And now I finally started to respect my own dreams and wishes, people didn’t get it.

Add to that; what I wanted wasn’t selling cheese.

The concept left many coaches with questions, too.

They didn’t get it either.

It wasn’t what they were used to.

Do you recognize that?

When you want to do something but the way you are doing it leaves others raising their eyebrows?

But this time I didn’t give in.

I didn’t change what I wanted to do.

I just got better at it.

I wanted to draw from my experience as a fashion-designer, and from what I had seen in the last years that was hurting people.

I wanted to help people, with something that they often didn’t see as an issue.

That is kinda hard, you know.

But I didn’t stop and just kept sharpening the concept and building the business.

And some of the results of that you see here.

How does “Create your stage” work?

The whole course is build around two things.
Knowing who you are & the confidence to let that show.

It sounds really easy, doesn’t it?

It means that you probably change or at the very least look at every aspect of your personality.

Now that sounds a little more difficult, right?

I made it easy.

We are going to look at everything you do in your life through 5 different subjects.

the subjects/chapters that we will be going trough.

I will, briefly, get in to all of these chapters for you.

Find Your Path
We have been taught, from the time we were a baby, to not listen to ourselves. Whatever comes naturally we know how to put on hold. If you want a life you love to wake up to, you are going to have to find and admit to yourself your dreams. Than, take action.

Mindset & Self-Image
You can’t do what you want to do unless you believe you can. It is a lonely road sometimes, you are going to have to know how to make sure you will be taking one step after the other to get to where you want to go.

Unleash Your Creativity
Showing who you are means you have to get off the beaten track. The only way to do that is by unleashing all the creativity you have inside you. You will never be lost for words again.

Rethink Your Wardrobe
Knowing who you are and finally letting go of the status quo means a transformation. How you look is the first and last thing people see. How do you want them to see you? Like “nothing special” or someone who knows their worth?

Visibility online & offline
Dare to show yourself online & offline. Dare to share what you have to say. You won’t have camera-fear anymore, and you will feel strong not in-spite of who you are, but because of who you are.

Don’t sweat yet!

I know it is a load, that is why I called it a transforming-course.

Things will never be the same again. (something Sporty Spice knows too)

Anyway, you don’t go through this alone. It is a tried and tested method to get to where you want to go, a true unapologetic self, that feels strong while showing who you are.

Check this if you don’t believe me!

We can figure out if “create your stage” gets you to where you want to go, too, simply by sending me an email, from which we will schedule a 1:1 call!